Tough love

I never got the chance to see my grandmother outside the nursing home. Never saw her standing up outside the confines of the metal bed rails. Never said good bye…

Dog Years

This month, my dog Sailor turns twelve years old. Throughout his life, we’ve done our best to spoil him with memory foam dog beds, three-foot-long rawhides and even paying a…

The Perfect Car

Cars have never been a true love of mine. But if I were to write my family’s story, I would divide the chapters by whatever was parked in the driveway. …

Surf Lessons

When we left Chile, I planned to leave the surfboard behind. My friend Cole talked me into keeping it. “Come on man,” he said, “You might want to try surfing…

The Visitation

The visitation was scheduled to start at two o’clock. By then, the parking lot was full. I found a spot along the back row, facing the cemetery. The invisible drizzle…

Beach Story

I kneeled down beside an old Hawaiian woman with nicotine stained teeth. As she took a long drag from a hand-rolled cigarette, her cheeks disappeared into two dime-sized sinkholes. I…